I used to attend a university for a diploma in computer engineering. After a few semesters, I decided to stop studying there. I needed to withdraw. However, what they call "student peers"—I am not sure what the term is in English—were being reductionist and maximalist regarding the official documents, stating that I had already agreed to and chosen the university and the study program in the online application form. This is not fair. I believe it is important to treat each person as an individual, as a whole person, rather than merely considering what I have done to prevent me from leaving. I wasn't there to fulfill their collectivist culture, believing I should prioritize the university's name and dignity at the cost of my own. At the moment, I want to take a break from writing this, as my mind is troubled by thoughts of my past, including the emotional abuse I experienced from the university staff. Unfair, right?

Guess who is exploiting and taking advantage of my vulnerability and trust? My uncle. He can use any of my mistakes that he finds to justify bullying and mocking me. I don't even have money to pay for his liquid petroleum gas for cooking. I am really sad, and no one cares. I am still a student with so many debts that I can't pay. It's around RM50,000. What does he expect? Taking advantage of me? Using my inability to pay his bills and for LPG, and when I'm at my worst, it's time for him to kick me out of his house. I am actually homeless. But that terribly destroyed house doesn't count. My father wanted me to stay at my uncle's house for stable electricity. #FamilyIssues #Struggle #Support #Homeless #StudentLife #Debt #EmotionalAbuse #Bullying #Vulnerability #Trust #Hope #Vent #MentalHealth #IAmTheProduct #MutualAid #NoOneCares

Manipulation in Therapy: How Some Therapists Cross Ethical Boundaries to Control Clients
https://youtu.be/85yiPjFtGpI
#MentalHealth #Therapy #Psychology #TherapistEthics #EmotionalAbuse

Experience the haunting reality of psychological abuse as the insidious presence of shadows feeding on despair, revealing the hidden horrors of everyday life in THE UNRAVELING series by Sandy Hoffman on Medium.com/@aidyspoetry.

A visceral exploration of resilience and defiance against an unseen menace.

Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here.

#goldenchildunleashed #goldenchild #scapegoat #narcissisticmother #narcissism #covertnarcissist #enablingparent #flyingmonkeys#toxicfamilyabuse #dysfunctionalfamily#childhoodtrauma #trauma #traumasurvivor #generationaltrauma #emotionalabuse #emotionalneglect#triangulation #nocontact #codependency #boundaries #peoplepleaser #perfectionism #lowselfworth #triggers #emotiondysregulation #complexPTSD #cPTSD #healing #recovery #musingsofarecoveringcodependent

In this gripping psychological horror tale, the shadows of betrayal and manipulation take on a life of their own. A woman confronts the demon within her partner, uncovering a truth more insidious than she ever imagined. Will she escape the shadows, or will they consume her?

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#theunraveling #psychologicalthriller #psychologicalabuse #PsychologicalHorror #gaslighting #storytelling #mentalhealth #emotionalabuse

https://medium.com/@aidyspoetry/the-demons-grasp-cccfdf3599fa

Childhood emotional abuse linked to workplace conflicts in power-seeking employees https://www.psypost.org/childhood-emotional-abuse-linked-to-workplace-conflicts-in-power-seeking-employees/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon #ChildhoodAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #WorkplaceConflict #PowerDynamics #MentalHealth

Oh! That's what this is.
#emotionalabuse

Found at this post on Facebook and honestly. Yeah. If someone won't make the time to be with you in a relationship, I hate to break it to you, but you don't really have a relationship...

If someone has repeatedly shown you that they don't see you and your heart as a priority, there's just no point continuing to beg them or chase them anymore for something that you shouldn't have to be begging or chasing for.

Because the truth is, you just can't build a relationship with someone who's never there, and who won't give you their time.

You can't build trust, you can't communicate properly, you can't resolve problems, and you can't strengthen your connection.

You might love someone more than you ever thought possible, but if they're not making you a priority and they're not giving you the love and commitment that you deserve, you're always going to be left feeling alone.

Sometimes we stay in a relationship that makes us feel alone, because really deep down inside we're actually afraid of being alone.

But it's so much harder and lonelier when you're made to feel alone in a relationship than it is compared to just being on your own.

If someone really wants to be a part of your life and wants to build a life with you, they're always going to make the time to be with you, instead of only seeing you when they have the time; there is a difference!

Sometimes you need to show respect towards yourself by choosing to let go and to stop chasing someone who's already let go of you, because you deserve someone who is committed, who is sure about you, and who is all in.

Because it doesn't matter how busy life gets or how busy someone is, if they really wanted to be with you, they would be; remember that...

~ Mark Smith

"Bad" Black Kids & Plantation Parenting - Sunn M'Cheaux
Vulnerable little mammals, kids, ought to be safe from grown folks' + police brutality.
"Only the strong survive" might get us through some horrors but not unscathed.
#education #kids #adultification #epigenetics #history #innocence #Parenting #community #AdultSupremacy #Trauma #SchoolToPrisonPipeline
#CorporalPunishment
#ChildAbuse #nonconsensual #Spanking #Whooping #Hitting #EmotionalAbuse
#BreakingGenerationalCurses
#BlackMastodon

Mixed media. #originalart #art #mixedmedia #mixedmediaart #mixedmediaartists #abuse #emotionalabuse #emotionalabusesurvivor #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness

Collage. #art #originalartwork #abuse #emotionalabuse #emotionalabusesurvivor #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness

mom: you're not even trying to find a job, are you?

I fill out applications. They get sorted by an automated system and fall through the cracks.

mom: you need to try harder

what do you want me to do? offer a handjob with every application? this is the reality of job searching in 2024. everything is automated and nobody fucking cares about your struggle to find work

mom: you're just lazy

@thepoliticalcat @dramypsyd people are defending this?
Lack of empathy is ok w you?
No other option?
She’s a #Sociopath #EmotionalAbuse #PsychologicalAbuse #ChildAbuse
#AdoptDontShoot fuckers.

Telling someone whatever you did to them is in the past is nothing more than cheap gaslighting.