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#genderfuckery

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Doom Guy created this glorious edit of a gender meme.

If this isn’t us coming out as plural, unclockable multigender fucks, I don’t know what is.

Image description: text on the upper left panel reads “I wish I was’t”, followed by an image of a skull with an abnormally small sized brain inside of it on the right side.

The next text panel down on the left reads “I can just”, followed by an image of a human head with a brain with neurons firing on the right side.

The second to last text panel panel down on the left reads “I always was [redacted]”, followed by an image of a human head with a glowing brain inside of it.

The final text panel on the bottom left of the image reads “destroy capitalism”, followed by an image of a human head with a brain inside of it emitting rays of light on the bottom right. (end description)

-Allēna

story time

one of the security guards at my office addresses me as “boss” which I understand is typically reserved for menfolk

today (after a few months in this role) the same guard said “you’re a busy guy”

so apparently he thinks I’m actually a man and that’s how I earned these male honorifics

So, there’s another gender ambiguous person in this office

the 2nd time we met, they told me their name (which I immediately forgot) and I said I really liked their new haircut - a lot shorter than before and it really compliments their style

We have the same build, coloring, height, and androgynous vibe but they’re *fashionable* whereas I am not

Anygays, I don’t know their pronouns but we share that ✨I see you, fam✨silent greeting whenever we cross paths and it is glorious #genderfuckery

Continued thread

#genderfuckery experiment update:

1) he couldn’t find me in the coffee shop (composed a text to me describing himself self-deprecatingly as “tall skinny bald guy”)

2) immediate behavior difference upon meeting - zero flirtatious comments, firm business handshake greeting, and other little details like physical proximity, level of conversational deference, etc that are difficult to describe but are easily recognized by folks who have ever been socially “woman-coded” by others.

Today is the day! (rescheduled from Feb 8)

meeting with a vendor - he made jokes about how he’ll be “dressed up” 🙄

…and my #genderfuckery experiment begins

Hypothesis: Greg, who has only “met” me by phone and email, will change his behavior toward me when he sees how my appearance doesn’t match gendered assumptions he has based on my voice

this guy named Greg (a sales rep I’m contracted with at work) is being really friendly with me via phone and now he’s asked me to coffee … to help me with onboarding a new product.

in my experience, cis dudes generally ummmm make assumptions based on my voice and then change their behavior when actually see how I look

stay tuned for results of gender fuckery in action - Feb 8th

MUAHAHAHAHA 😈
#GenderFuckery