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Barefoot Rambling<p>Have I talked about how for most of my adult live I described myself as being "wired differently" than everyone around me?</p><p>Then as I explored the things that made me so different, I discovered that my Myers-Briggs type (INFJ) is the rarest and often called "The Mystic."</p><p>Then, I discovered the idea of Highly Sensitive People (HSP) and had what I thought was an explanation for my sensory issues, too. </p><p>THEN I added Empath to the list and I thought I had myself pretty well figured out.</p><p>Yeah, turns out every single one of the things I was looking for an explanation for fall under the heading "undiscovered auDHD."</p><p>One explanation to rule them all, if you will.</p><p>I just read a book about INFJ writers (I'm one of those, too) and am almost through The Autistic Survival Guide to Therapy and have all kinds of thoughts swirling around.</p><p>Watch this space, as soon as I can wrangle those thoughts into holding still long enough to get them down in writing, I'll have a post for y'all.</p><p>Or, you know, several posts as this is a deep one.</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <br><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/auDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>auDHD</span></a></p>
Barefoot Rambling<p>So I've had this repeating number sequence in my head for weeks.</p><p>I'll space out and find myself tapping it out on my desk.</p><p>Or with my tongue on the roof of my mouth.</p><p>Or with my left foot on the dead pedal while driving.</p><p>I had a flash today and realized it was the opening guitar riff from the Green Day song "wake me up when September ends," which I probably haven't heard since it was new 20 years ago.</p><p>I don't even listen to Green Day. Didn't then, don't now.</p><p>How in the hell did my brain grab onto that riff of all things and decide to play it—not the riff itself, just the repeating pattern—on repeat since sometime in March?!?!</p><p><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/auDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>auDHD</span></a> <br><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span></p>
Emily Moran Barwick<p>Every time I feel my brain getting overloaded by the endless stream of information, digital feeds, or just my own hyperactive <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> synapses, I re-listen to this absolute gem of an audioblog by <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://social.lol/@keenan" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>keenan</span></a></span> </p><p>It perfectly captures the over-processing ramp-up...</p><p>..then culminates in a soothing bubble bath of velvety voice mastery washing over your brain folds. 🫠</p><p><a href="https://gkeenan.co/avgb/hot-take-its-okay-if-we-dont-consume-all-of-the-worlds-information-before-we-die/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">gkeenan.co/avgb/hot-take-its-o</span><span class="invisible">kay-if-we-dont-consume-all-of-the-worlds-information-before-we-die/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/blogging" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>blogging</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AmReading" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AmReading</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SmallWeb" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SmallWeb</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Barefoot Rambling<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://techhub.social/@hosford42" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>hosford42</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> </p><p>Wow I feel this.</p><p>I had no idea things like my reaction to brushing the shower curtain or the tile wall on the other side was part of my sensory...stuff. I mean, why wouldn't it be? I just never thought about it.</p><p>Sensory Reverb is now not only my favorite new phrase, it's also going on my list of awesome band names!</p><p><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/auDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>auDHD</span></a></p>
Libre :neurodiversity:<p>Unlearning conformist bigotry is so weird when you've been entrenched in it and brainwashed with it since you were a child. Instead of all those triggers at the world tells you you should be weirded out by, you now have to take that and flip that into celebration</p><p>It's very freeing but that freedom is also mildly anxiety inducing as you have to re-learn boundaries of what is actually unacceptable. No, the person showing their interests full blown is perfectly fine and a good thing. Yes, the "cool" people mocking people over being themselves should be viewed as toxic and are not cool at all. Etc.</p><p><a href="https://autistics.life/tags/BeYourself" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BeYourself</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/Bigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Bigotry</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ConformistBigotry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ConformistBigotry</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/Unlearning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Unlearning</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/LateDiagnosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LateDiagnosis</span></a> <a href="https://autistics.life/tags/SpecialInterests" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SpecialInterests</span></a></p>
Emily Moran Barwick<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://autistics.life/@barefootrambling" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>barefootrambling</span></a></span> <br>I really enjoyed reading this. I keep learning more and more about my blend of <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AUDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AUDHD</span></a> </p><p>In some ways it's validating and enlightening. In other ways I'm still left with "okay but HOW DO I DO LIFE???"</p><p>I just wish the understanding of being <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> *ALSO* came with a "SO NOW WHAT" manual 🙃 </p><p>I know I’m not alone, though. And it always makes me feel "seen" when I hear other people sharing their explorations.</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyadhd" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyadhd</span></a></span></p>
Emily Moran Barwick<p>To all my fellow <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AUDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AUDHD</span></a> double-winners, I’m curious if you too have felt you had to “make yourself smaller”?</p><p>For me it was a survival mechanism…much like masking and passing. And just as damaging.</p><p>That’s what drove me to write this essay. I want more of us <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> people to take up space. To be who we are fully. Not who makes others comfortable. </p><p>We need more neurodivergent joy and safety in this world.</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span></p>
Emily Moran Barwick<p>I've spent a lifetime making myself smaller for everyone.</p><p>Making myself the version of me that was most useful and comfortable for everyone around me.</p><p>And I *HAVE* to stop before I disappear.</p><p>I wrote about learning to TAKE UP SPACE: <a href="https://fromemily.com/space-taking-defiance/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">fromemily.com/space-taking-def</span><span class="invisible">iance/</span></a></p><p>Maybe you've made yourself smaller too? Let's TAKE UP SPACE together.</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalhealth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/neurodiversity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodiversity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/writing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/FromEmily" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FromEmily</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SmallWeb" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SmallWeb</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/writersofmastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writersofmastodon</span></a></p>
Mitch Effendi (ميتش أفندي)<p>RFK Jr. Set to Launch Disease Registry Tracking Autistic People</p><p><a href="https://newrepublic.com/post/194245/rfk-jr-disease-registry-track-autistic-people" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">newrepublic.com/post/194245/rf</span><span class="invisible">k-jr-disease-registry-track-autistic-people</span></a></p><p><a href="https://hoagie.cloud/tags/news" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>news</span></a> <a href="https://hoagie.cloud/tags/actuallyadhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyadhd</span></a> <a href="https://hoagie.cloud/tags/actuallyautisic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautisic</span></a></p>
Cassian [main]<p>ADHD is so weird!</p><p>*drinks coffee* Mmmmm lovely, time for a nap</p><p>*puts TV on* oh, magically I am able to tidy my desk now</p><p><a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a></p>
Emily Moran Barwick<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://zeroes.ca/@StaceyCornelius" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>StaceyCornelius</span></a></span> I’ve been (unsuccessfully) seeking that Goldilocks “sweet spot” for a lifetime now..</p><p>I crave it with all of my being but seem to always swing too far one way, then overcorrect with a vengeance. </p><p>Being <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> &amp; <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> sometimes feels like an impossible combination to “please”. Your graceful way of wording this makes me want to try a gentler approach with my <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> self. </p><p>…I always forget to be gentle…</p>
Verđandi K. Soldusty<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <br>And two hours after my Mam's weekly phone call, I can definitely say that &amp; has done a number on me. Still totally burned out from it &amp; the frelling Waiting mode before it.</p><p>I'm just going to have to call tomorrow &amp; Tuesday my weekend. Just me, my chocolate eggs &amp; I… well, okay probably some Mastodon too. </p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/Burnout" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Burnout</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Spoons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Spoons</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autistic</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Whinery<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@flexghost" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>flexghost</span></a></span> </p><p><a href="https://undefined.social/tags/RFKjr" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RFKjr</span></a> is a bad person, some doctors say the definition of autism is too broad.</p><p><a href="https://nypost.com/2023/04/24/doctor-who-broadened-autism-spectrum-sorry-for-over-diagnosis/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">nypost.com/2023/04/24/doctor-w</span><span class="invisible">ho-broadened-autism-spectrum-sorry-for-over-diagnosis/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://undefined.social/tags/reserach" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reserach</span></a> <a href="https://undefined.social/tags/actuallyadhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyadhd</span></a> <a href="https://undefined.social/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a> <a href="https://undefined.social/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> <br><a href="https://undefined.social/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://undefined.social/tags/science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>science</span></a> <a href="https://undefined.social/tags/factsmatter" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>factsmatter</span></a></p>
Verđandi K. Soldusty<p>My brain rediscovered it's How to Clean &amp; Tidy Stuff for Dummies yesterday &amp; I've finally given my kitchen worktops a full clean, even the parts buried under things.</p><p>Hopefully next time will be a little easier as the clean means I am finally using a few worktop storage racks &amp; baskets that I probably bought over two months ago… Thinking about it I think I bought them before xmas 😅.<br>Yeah, my concepts of past time tend to fall of a cliff after a few days or maybe a week.</p><p>I've also finally tidied, cleaned &amp; got my coffee tables looking a bit more festive to brighten the place up a bit. Now I can finally chill out &amp; enjoy Ostara (Easter).</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autistic</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Emily Moran Barwick<p>I want to be in dialogue with my <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/website" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>website</span></a> my work, and the people who find it. Not have it be just a space where I publish posts and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/art" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>art</span></a>, but a living work itself. I want to engage with and collaborate with it. I want to inform it and for it to inform me.</p><p>- from my evolving "Website Manifesto": <a href="https://fromemily.com/website-manifesto/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">fromemily.com/website-manifest</span><span class="invisible">o/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SmallWeb" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SmallWeb</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/writing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/blogging" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>blogging</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mastoart" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mastoart</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/writing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/writingcommunity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>writingcommunity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/FromEmily" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FromEmily</span></a></p>
V'ger<p>With my AuDHD diagnosis, I also started to re-evaluate my hobbies. Gaming is one of them and I noticed that, for a game to work for me, I need to get into a flow easily. That is basically the most important "feature" a game needs. Action RPGs, first person shooters, some types of simulation are games which almost guarantee to put me in that flow.</p><p>I've always liked large scale strategy games (4x), or so I thought. With the classic real time strategy games from the 90s/2000s, it felt like I wouldn't be able to keep track of everything. So I turned to slower 4X or turn based games. The problems with those always was, that I couldn't get into a flow. Large scale 4X also has the problem for me, that a single game can take dozens of hours. And thanks to my AuDHD, I will lose interest in the game before ending the round. When I come back to it, I have to start over, as I have a hard time getting back into an old savegame.</p><p>Yesterday, Tempest Rising was released. A game very similar to the Command &amp; Conquer games. I watched a few games on Twitch and noticed that the players got into a kind of flow that I really liked to watch. So I bought the game and tried it. It took me a couple of missions, but I can definitely say that I have a much easier time getting into a flow in this game than in any 4X or turn based game I've played in the past five years. A mission only takes a few hours and I can put the game aside at any time, coming back to it easily when I'm up to it.</p><p>So I've basically learned once again not to write something off because I just "feel" like I wouldn't be able to handle it. Just having this feeling could become an indicator for me that the game I'm looking at actually has very good potential to become a favorite of mine.</p><p><a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Random Weirdo<p>What do you think: is being "highly sensitive" (HSP) the same as "autistic" (ASD) and/or "ADHD"?</p><p>Boost and comment. But please be respectful.</p><p><a href="https://hessen.social/tags/Autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autism</span></a> <a href="https://hessen.social/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://hessen.social/tags/HSP" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HSP</span></a> <a href="https://hessen.social/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://hessen.social/tags/actuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://hessen.social/tags/actuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Emily Moran Barwick<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mstdn.social/@lifewithtrees" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>lifewithtrees</span></a></span> <br>I think it’s SO important to celebrate executive function/self-care victories. </p><p>I feel like the “everyday life” stuff takes a Herculean effort to maintain &amp; attend to with my <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> brain. </p><p>I used to think I was weak &amp; messy &amp; irresponsible (even though I kept things “kinda together” mostly by force). </p><p>Now I try to remind myself how remarkable it is that I even feed &amp; clothe myself 🙃</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyadhd" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyadhd</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span></p>
Mike McGrath-Bryan<p>Here's my story of consultation, assessment, diagnosis and the beginning of my journey as a late-diagnosed autistic, from the Examiner in 2022. I'm sticking to it.</p><p><a href="https://www.irishexaminer.com/lifestyle/healthandwellbeing/arid-40840313.html" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">irishexaminer.com/lifestyle/he</span><span class="invisible">althandwellbeing/arid-40840313.html</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/actuallyadhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyadhd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/mastodaoine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mastodaoine</span></a></p>
Mike McGrath-Bryan<p>I've been biting my tongue so hard, that I think I'm going dizzy from blood loss; but suffice it to say, the "uptick" in Autism and ADHD diagnoses are not a "debate", nor are they fair game for same.</p><p>Understandings, knowledge and vocabularies expand across a variety of fields; human beings benefit from access to and knowledge of same. Sin é.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/actuallyadhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyadhd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/mastodaoine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mastodaoine</span></a></p>