Co-op question, for people who are in one or have been in one that works:
I've seen a couple that want to have core values but also seem to want to include literally anybody.
How does this work, exactly? I'm coming from experience as one of the ppl weeded out by "include everyone, even assholes" norms, since they result in ONLY including assholes and those unimpacted AND indifferent to assholes (AKA more assholes).
So how do co-ops have standards? Genuine question.