feels like this might be in a similar vein: https://rosenzweig.io/blog/the-federation-fallacy.html
i think that's why i prefer distributed architectures much more over federated architectures.
https://www.inkandswitch.com/local-first.html also (which is essentially saying to flip the power dynamics: like, put the client first and allow servers to exist as auxiliaries)
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