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Mayel @mayel

THIS! (quoting @gaditb)

"Mastodon aims more at finding a small community to fit in -- you're "on Mastodon/The Fediverse", yes, but you're SOMEWHERE there, not in the meaningless ether of "try searching for things and following people randomly, maybe" in... basically all other social networks.
You have neighbors and a neighborhood, which again -- communities, and communication."

@mayel @gaditb Not sure about the neighbors thing, to me it feels more like a community of interest or an affinity group. Maybe it is dialogue based?

@Matt_Noyes @gaditb

Well my neighbourhood (Exarcheia in Athens, Greece) is affinity based so it works both ways :)

@mayel @Matt_Noyes and similarly, my neighborhood -- icosahedron.website -- isn't really interest- or affinity- based, I don't think. We just like the atmosphere, and say hi to each other and all.

@mayel @gaditb this to me is the key element that is allowing us to take on the big platforms' where previous attempts have failed. A score or so of active co-op geeks on generates enough Quality Content™️ to keep me coming back in a way I never did on or , and means that primarily internally-focused content nonetheless helps build the broader network effect

@mattcropp @mayel @gaditb

Well spotted. The federated conversation primes the pump for each additional instance.

@deejoe @mayel @gaditb Exactly. This way we don't need a giant time-synchronized wave - just a steady dribble of new communities moving their conversations here until a tipping point is reached...

@mayel @gaditb Excited by first mastodon wave, returned to gnusocial to engage, ended up searching for things and following people randomly.
@mayel @gaditb I think there are many ppl using their nodes as portal only. I'd love more quasi-local community but this is my experience.
@mayel @gaditb That said, my fediverse/diaspora node selection algo is "guess which on the global list will exist longest," for good reason.

@taiganaut @mayel have you thought about making one or more alts, to just poke around in places? There's no particular reason to have only one account in the whole fediverse... (it's not like people have only one email address...)

@gaditb @mayel in a sense? My current node is pretty slow so I'm considering whether to move. Otherwise not a ton of time for it rly
@gaditb @mayel "search & random follow" got me a good beachhead now but previously I've been vexed w/no lists of suggested ppl to follow

@taiganaut Gnu Social has the Local and Federated timelines, right? That's one of the big reasons to check out an alternate Mastodon instance -- a different set of people obviously gives a different set of posts/atmosphere for the Local, but also jt makes the Federated, on a small instance, act as kinda a loose "other people are seeing X" rec list to browse for Good Posts or new follows from the people who you know from the local.